Frequently asked questions
Do you ever tour?
I've been know to hit the road! The best way to keep up with my travel plans is to subscribe to my newsletter.
If you don't want to wait for me to come to your city, you have a few options:
I'D LIKE FOR YOU TO TAKE CONTROL, BUT I DON'T LIKE PAIN - CAN WE STILL MEET?
Of course! I delight in all varieties of intimacy. Whether you are wincing or shivering with pleasure, it all brings me an equal amount of joy. To learn a little more about my approach to sensual BDSM, check out this article I was featured in.
DO YOU OFFER VIRTUAL SESSIONS OR CUSTOM VIDEOS?
Absolutely! Click here for more information about ways we can connect across time and space.
WHAT ATTRIBUTES DO YOU LOOK FOR IN A CLIENT?
I appreciate spending time with people who are excited about me, attracted to me, are open-minded, gracious, and generous. I am not looking for a male model, I'm looking for you and all the characteristics that make you special. I do not discriminate based on age, body size, nationality, race, or religion.
Signs we'll be a good fit:
You love a quirky sense of humor and you don't mind silly dad jokes.
You are understanding of my need to conduct screening and collect deposits.
You are willing to be vulnerable and are able to communicate your desires and boundaries, or at least try. I can provide a much more intimate exchange if I can trust that you will speak up about your needs.
You care about the experience, not necessarily the "menu."
You'd like a collaborative adventure and a true connection, not a line-by-line script or a kinky vending machine.
There's always a chance that you'd like to engage in play that does not align with my interests, skills, or abilities and that's okay! In this instance, I will gladly refer you to someone who is better matched.
WHAT ARE YOUR LIMITS?
Thank you for asking! I am not a professional switch or submissive. My hard limits are: race play of any kind, body shaming, scat, and vomit.
DO YOU PROVIDE THE LOCATION FOR OUR TIME TOGETHER?
By and large, yes. I generally host in private apartments, upscale hotels, and private dungeons and I have an extensive network of rentals in most major cities. I'm available for outcalls, though I prefer incalls because it gives me time to prepare the space and set up my bits and bobs.
If you'd like to garner my good graces, I'd love to join you in a luxury hotel with a soaking tub built for two.
If you would like me to book a hotel or have special location requests, I'm happy to oblige, but there will be an additional fee. In the case of "Fly Me To You" bookings, I will ask that you cover the cost of my lodging.
SHOULD I BRING ANYTHING TO OUR SESSION?
A positive attitude and a smile! In addition, I ask that you be clean shaven and freshly showered. You're always welcome to shower upon your arrival.
Please enclose the rate for my time in an unmarked, unsealed envelope or tucked in your favorite novel or vinyl record. If you'd like to impress me, you can find information about ways to spoil me here. Gifts are always appreciated (and remembered fondly), but they are not required.
I do imbibe in cannabis in moderate amounts and I enjoy fruity drinks of all kinds, alcoholic and virgin.
If you'd like to bring a snack I'm a pastry fiend, my favorites being kouign-amanns, chocolate croissants, and doughnuts, especially Krispy Kremes. I'm a lover of fresh fruits - berries, kiwi, pineapple, plums, citrus, etc.
DO YOU ALLOW FOR VIDEOS OR PHOTOS DURING A SESSION?
This is decided on a case by case basis and is only possible if I do the filming or photographing on my device and send you the footage after our encounter.
If you'd like to be featured in my clip stores, please be prepared to sign a model release.